So, here you are nicely sat pretty in your long -standing relationship, you love each other’s company and both are really comfortable in everything you share. Sex is good, sometimes spontaneous, sometimes funny …… but you would really like to broach the subject of introducing a sex toy into your relationship to spice thing up.
Ok, so far so good, so let’s look at what’s out there, to take you on your pleasure journey.
At the beginning, it’s probably better to start things off small and slow to get the feel of what you both like and what you are comfortable with. The size is great since they sit at the end of your fingertips, so not overtly large but boy do they absolutely deliver! Bullet vibrators are generally used for C spot stimulation, but here’s the thing, they are great for teasing and pleasing all the pleasure zones on each -others bodies. When you’re gearing up for a night of pleasure why not use the tip of the bullet on your partners neck, nipples, groin, and perineum to get the” balls” rolling. You can even introduce some soft sensory play with a blindfold to enhance the sensations. Don’t forget bullets are a girl’s best friend so if you want your partner to pleasure you or maybe he wants to watch you get off… they are the perfect bedtime accessory.
Insertable toys are a great next step but do go for a product that is gentle on the eye, if it’s your first time. The finger loop allows the toy to be controlled by the finger to give feather touch body stroking vibrating sensations or use it for stimulation to enjoy an internal or external orgasm. Remember nothing is in tablets of stone, just give it time and learn to know how your body responds and use the vibrations to set the pace. You’ll soon be up and running!
Now one for the boys! (and also, girls, coz they also get the benefit) this could be your chance to get the things underway without any questions by suggesting some shared pleasure by introducing a vibrating cock ring. Cock Rings work by restricting the blood flow and helping to maintain longer and harder erections. This is where the fun begins as partners can participate by putting the ring into place and then turning the pleasure on. Don’t forget you can still give oral sex and a full hands-on experience e to your man whilst Capture is in play. Now if that doesn’t get him up and ready for action in the bedroom and just begging to all board the sex train to naughty bedroom romps, nothing will.
Using sex toys to enhance relationships, is exactly that, you don’t have to use them all of the time but what you should do is grab the moment, be spontaneous and just enjoy the ride!