A flogger can be a real asset for those new to BDSM, as well as for experienced BDSM enthusiasts, because with this special whip you can give each other both tender caresses and tickles, as well as intense tingling sensations. During spanking, you have the option of going exactly as far as feels right for you.
What is a flogger?
A flogger is a whip with a firm handle to which several soft, relatively short thongs are attached. These look like fringes. This toy, which is very popular in the BDSM scene, is often available with leather thongs, but products made of synthetic leather, which are therefore completely vegan, are becoming increasingly common. Rubber, horsehair, or rope are also popular materials and can thus cater to specific fetishes.
Tip: Floggers with an additional loop on the handle are particularly practical and safe, because they won't simply slip out of your hand during use, but will stay on your wrist. This gives you added safety and allows for more targeted spanking.
How is the whip used in sex or BDSM?
Using it is quite intuitive, but here's a guide on how to use the flogger. Hold it in the hand you intend to use, and gather the straps with the other hand. Then release them while whipping to strike a single, concentrated area. If you simply want to tickle with the straps, slowly run the fringes of the toy over your partner's skin and erogenous zones.
Our tip: Even though the flogger is perfect for gaining initial experience with BDSM and pleasurable pain, take the time to familiarize yourself with the toy beforehand. The dominant partner should practice a few test strokes on a tabletop and then carefully on themselves to get a feel for how it feels in the hand, how it behaves during use, and how intense the straps can feel on bare skin.
These sensitive areas should be avoided during your play to prevent injuries:
Face
Neck and throat
Kidney area
Spine
As a general rule, areas with more subcutaneous fat are better suited for spanking with a flogger. These include the buttocks and thighs. Depending on the intensity of your application, redness and tingling, sometimes even visible welts, may occur in these areas. Therefore, be sure to discuss beforehand how far you want to go and agree on a safeword that means "stop."
What is the difference between a flogger and a whip?
A flogger is a specific type of whip. While a classic whip has a long thong or rope and must be used with a lot of momentum and a sweeping motion, a flogger has several shorter thongs. This ultimately makes a difference in handling. Floggers fit well in the hand, are lighter, and easier to use.
A whip, on the other hand, should only be used by experienced individuals in BDSM or lovemaking to avoid serious injuries. The shorter the thong, the more precise the strikes to specific areas of the body.
