Doesn’t shower sex look so effortless in movies? The steamy glass, water dripping down, two bodies moving in perfect rhythm. But in real life? It’s usually more slippery than sexy. The good news is: with the right prep, it can live up to the fantasy.
Making shower sex unforgettable. Here’s some recommends for keeping it safe, sensual, and seriously satisfying!
1. Don’t Let Water Be the Mood Killer
Let’s get this out of the way: water washes everything away, including your body’s natural lubrication. That means what starts off smooth can turn into friction fast. The fix? A lube that’s designed to keep up.
2. Keep Your Grip (and Your Balance)
Slipping isn’t sexy. Use a shower mat or grab bar so you’re not one wrong move away from a bruise or a story you don’t want to tell. The same rule applies to whatever’s in your hand — choose something compact, waterproof, and easy to control.
3. Warm Water = Instant Foreplay
Temperature play starts the second you turn the faucet on. Let the heat run over your shoulders while your partner’s hands explore — or swap roles and let them take in the view. That mix of warmth, scent, and skin contact? That’s foreplay in motion.
Too hot? Cool it down. Alternating between warm and cool water can heighten sensitivity and make every touch feel new again.
4. Skip the Penetration (If You Want To)
You don’t need penetration to have great shower sex. Mutual masturbation, oral, and external play often feel better (and safer) when things are wet.
5. Get Creative with Positions
Standing face-to-face looks good in movies but isn’t always realistic in the shower. Try mixing it up:
From behind, with your hands braced against the wall.
One leg lifted onto a ledge for balance and deeper angles.
Seated, if your shower has a bench or edge. Take it slow, easy, and intimate.
6. Wash, Then Wind Down
The best part of shower sex? You’re already halfway clean. Take a few extra minutes to soap up together, touch, or just breathe. Then step out, dry off, and move somewhere softer.
Bottom Line
With the right prep, a little lube, and a few waterproof essentials, shower can become one of the most sensual, connected ways to start, or end your day.
