The multiple orgasm is the holy grail for many women. Having an orgasm is great, but feeling that pleasure coursing through your body, wave after wave, is something else. As they say, nothing good comes easily, so it takes a little more work to achieve a multiple orgasm – but, wow, is it worth it!
So, ladies, we won’t tease you any longer, our multiple orgasm guide will have you tipping over the edge until you just can’t take any more.
What are multiple orgasms?
Different people have different pictures when they think about what multiple orgasms are. Some class them as one orgasm after another, in quick succession. Others class them as being two or more orgasms during one period of sexual activity, so slowing things down a little in between each climax.
Hey – whichever way you see it, more orgasms are always a good thing!
Different types of orgasms
While men generally have to make do with a single climax before having to reload, we women are often able to come not once, not twice, but an unlimited number of times without taking a break. That’s because we have multiple areas to stimulate and multiple types of orgasm to have. Thank you, anatomy!
Here are the two main types of orgasm you can have...
Clitoral orgasm
The clit tends to be the go-to spot to lick, rub or titillate and why wouldn’t it be? This little love button actually reaches internally around the vagina and all the way to the anus and has over 8,000 nerve endings just waiting to be set off – double those in a penis. And when they are given some love, the feeling is so good!
Vaginal orgasm
The v-orgasm is all about the G-spot – that sweet spot of sensitivity found internally. When stimulated in the right way, the resulting climax can be intense.
Get V-Fit
Keeping things toned is a sure-fire way to boost your chances of multiple climax. This means giving your pelvic floor, or Kegel muscles, a workout on a regular basis. Not only can this make your vaginal muscles stronger and more sensitive, increasing the intensity of your orgasms, but it will also keep you feeling tight and toned for your partner.
Focus on foreplay
While orgasms are a natural process, you need arousal to fuel them. So, whether you’re pleasuring yourself or getting frisky with your partner, enjoy an intense build-up.
Get those fingers, mouths and sex toys going – starting slowly, then gradually building up. The key is to tease and titillate, and even bring yourself right to the edge before slowing down and starting again. The more tension and excitement you create, the more explosive your orgasms will be.
Think ‘eye of the storm’
If you’re after those multiple pleasure waves, it’s not simply about keeping going. With the heightened sensitivity immediately following each orgasm, pulling back briefly can help to minimise discomfort and give you a chance to enjoy more of them.
During this pull-back period, direct your own or your partner’s attention away from that area and focus on some sensual, gentler kissing and caressing instead. But a word of warning – don’t pull back from intimate contact for too long or the moment may be lost.
Get in the mindset
The more you want orgasms to happen, the less likely it is that they will. So, try not to focus solely on the end-goal. Instead, let yourself get lost in the moment. Enjoy every little sensation and quit beating yourself up mentally if you’re not getting there quick enough. To achieve the best orgasms of your life, you need to relax and let physical arousal take over – after all, the journey can be just as fun as the end destination.
